My favorite new study that I came across this week is the following: “Infants show physiological responses specific to parental hugs” (1). There are so many of you in touch who have recently had a new child. Though the current covid-19 protocol is social distancing and isolation this should not affect how you care for your infant. The opposite (unless you are actually infected). In short, what they find is that when parents, as opposed to strangers, hug, not just hold or squeeze tight, but a genuine loving hug of their infant – that sweet adorable bundle of joy and love who wakes you up all through the night – has the most nurturing response, meaning reflected parasympathetically in the behavior of the heart. So parents, hugging your baby is really important for them ….. and you.
I love the graphic from the original published paper, included above.
Here’s a quote from the study’s authors: "Your baby loves to be hugged and loves how you hug your baby. Even though infants cannot speak, they recognize their parents through various parenting methods, including hugging, after four months old at latest. We hope that knowing how your baby feels while being hugged helps ease the physical and psychological workload of taking care of infants too young to speak." (2)